Your neighbors have a son. He is now thirtyfive years old. Going by his age you would think of him as a young man and on metting his mother or father, would ask, almost out of habit, ‘ And what does the young man do ?' That expression, ‘young man’, doesn’t sit well as he is but a child. But what if the father or The Father – the ‘T’ and ‘F’ capital, both words italicized? That is, what if the ‘father’in question is ‘God’? Why do the reactions and answer change for so many of us?